Okay, jetpack notice resolved, now linked to my wordpress.com
However all other issues remaining, im now away for the next 2 weeks with work so will get back to you then after reading through the tutorials you mentioned…
Host: Bluehost
Connecting to WordPress: No idea, but this is causing problems
Wordpress version: 3.6.1
Symbiostock:2.6.5 Clean Theme 2.0v currently installed
The only plugins running are Jetpack & symbiostock
Where do I find the php.ini I have?
The tutorial I posted the link to?